STUFF TO SAY💫

When we are in the process of being renewed ie; from the experiences and the hurts we have
gone through, the pains that have set us in specific fight-or-flight responses, the experiences
that though not intentionally placed on us have taken a toll, have tried to dim our light and
caused us deep anguish such that even in the times when we have long outgrown these times we
still have pain lingering as if we never left in the first place

I genuinely believe that those moments should be left in the hands of God.

No one can truly know the way a system operates in its inmost being better than the creator himself!

So when these traumatic experiences decided to settle within us in different ways, like; anxiety, fear, perfectionism, depression, avoidance, etc, to root them out, we need
a thorough understanding of how the mind works to keep the memory of pain and trauma to
the extent of us having to acquire a set of behaviors so we can cope with that pain!

Doctors and researchers have described and tried their best to explain these in detail.
In these times, we could also very easily receive the advice we need from a very accessible google article, a blog just like this, or a youtube video inviting the wisdom of scientists or researchers who have dedicated years studying trauma deeply. All these in the attempt to bring full resolution to the troubles each of us are and have faced in life

These will not bring full healing but will cause us to of course bring insight but full healing.
Because they encourage a life centered on the ‘inner’ strength of a human being which in itself
is limited,
In those moments we need to let God rule because then these things can be fully restored,
Human beings can only help themselves up until they feel depleted, lost, confused, frustrated, or in pain. So then what happens in those moments?
Do we hold on until our next happy session is back?
Do we hold on until we feel great again to start the work?
No
We turn to God!
He can and knows exactly what buttons to pull, what parts to alter, and what type of healing we
need,
He goes into all the nitty gritty and deals with the very unthinkable reason why you can’t stop
staying mad all the time, or why fear has such a great hold on you, he goes and fishes deep into
the trenches of our hearts and searches deep until he finds it and deals fully with it
I guess that’s why we call Him a healer
Because He actually is

Part of why I actually love this is because He was present when we were subjected to these
hurts so he knows exactly what to do!
It takes time to heal a wounded hurt, in the hands of God it takes a while because of all the
deconstruction he has to do!
If you have been in a long period of sorrow just cast it to Him

Dealing with a perfectionist attitude, When we fall, we beat ourselves up each day thinking we
are either not cut out for this world’s cruelty or we just are not trying hard enough,
We have no capacity to give ourselves grace because we put ourselves on a pedestal, we do this
(and this may just be me but) I believe we may have too much trust in ourselves, we somehow believe
that we are capable of doing certain things, and when our humanity beats our expectations we
cannot stand it!
God can heal this too!
I am not to stay rooted in studies meant to help me understand myself better,
I just need to trust God to heal me
Last night I vowed to give up,
This afternoon I’m hoping once again, Not in me or in the world
In the maker of heaven and earth, My maker,
Because whatever work he begins in me is perfect and it is all I need